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An Exploration of World Religions: Judaism

JudaismBecause I have so many Jewish friends, I feel a special connection to their religion and culture. Also, as someone who is religious, I feel deeply honored to have visited synagogues, attended weddings, seders, a bris and a brit bat. Although I’m still hoping to attend a bar/bat mitzvah in my lifetime!

Here is an interview of Glenda, who is a central member of my Burning Man family. I scoured Glenda’s Facebook page and found wonderful vintage photos that I’ve sprinkled throughout the interview. I hope you enjoy reading about her background and viewing her pictures as much as I did. This one’s a true treasure trove.

Tell me about yourself. Where you’re from, where you live, what you do?

I am a native of San Francisco and have lived here for my whole life, except for six years. I live in the neighborhood I grew up in, the Richmond district. My current job is an Activity Coordinator, working mainly with senior residents of The Sequoias who live in the Memory Care.

Recent family photo (Glenda above the man in the white hat)

Why are you Jewish? Was the religion passed down? Did you discover it?

I grew up with a Roman Catholic father and a Jewish mother, as well as a Jewish grandfather. My mother and grandfather fled Hungary after the Holocaust. Our parents exposed us to all religions; we attended all sorts of services and went to different Sunday schools. Judaism seemed to make the most sense to me and my sister, Janey. Our other sister is eight years younger than me and she had a different experience, which I’m not really sure what that was. My father obviously was cool with our choice (after all he did marry a Jewish woman).

What does it mean to be Jewish? What is unique about the faith?

I think what makes Judaism unique is that Jews as a culture value knowledge, creativity, curiosity and having a moral stance on everything. As A Jew I feel that I have invisible ties that go back centuries.

Tell me about synagogue / practices / religious holidays.

I attended services with my family on holidays as well as celebrated rituals at home. I didn’t go to Hebrew school or Saturday school. Right now where I work, I often bring residents to Torah studies, which happen once a month. It’s quite fun to sit around with a group of senior Jews from all over the world and discuss these biblical stories.

Fantasy photo of Glenda in ancient times

What are the pros and cons?

I don’t know; I’m proud to call myself a Jew and don’t feel any pros or cons about it.

What are the misperceptions about Judaism or the people?

I think we are thought of as a group of people who are feared by many for some strange, complicated reasons going back to ancient times. Jews have learned to survive in every part of the world through hard work and often assimilation which can be confusing. I once saw a documentary in which the Dali Lama sat down with a group of rabbis and asked them how they have survived away from their homeland.

Glenda (right) with her father and sister

What do you believe about the after-life?

I believe in heaven and that the spirits of loved ones are all around us.

Tell me about an important religious experience for you.

Never really had one.

Have you been to Israel and if so, can you tell me about that experience?

I haven’t been to Israel.

Can you give me your perspective on the Israel-Palestine conflict?

I think it’s a horrible situation that I hope one day comes to a peaceful and harmonious end. After all, if biblical history is correct, we stem from the same father. It’s through the maternal line that the difference occurs.

Glenda (far left) with her parents and sisters

How has the Trump presidency affected you or your religion or your beliefs? Whatdo you think of his daughter and son-in-law being practicing Jews? Does that help relations with Netanyahu?

I think the whole Trump family is wrecking whatever advances have been made, in the name of greed and stupidity.

What questions do you have about other religions?

Often other religions don’t make sense to me, why they believe what they believe and that includes atheists and skeptics.

What else do you want me or people to know about your faith?

Since everyone is unique, there will be that much more to learn.

Is your youngest sister also a practicing Jew?

My youngest sister is a Sufi right now.

Who in your religion do you admire or look up to?

The person I most admire is Rabbi Alvin Fine who clarified so much for me as a child….during a service he would speak about the world in such a kind, loving, and intelligent way. Between him and my grandfather who I loved deeply, I wanted to be a part of their world.

Glenda (right) with her mother and sisters

What denomination are you? Orthodox, Conservative, Reform? Am I characterizing that correctly?

I guess I’m a Reform Jew……when my great-aunt visited from Hungary when I was a teenager, we took her to Temple Emanu-El and she thought it was a church….I think she was Orthodox…….she only spoke Hungarian and German, possibly some Hebrew.

Is your husband Jewish? Do you incorporate him in your faith in any way?

My husband is an atheist but he joins in our celebrations…….growing up I’d say a majority of his friends were Jewish so he was familiar with our customs…..one of his friends’ father was a rabbi.

If someone wanted to learn more about being Jewish, what resource(s) would you point them to?

My mom had me read a book as a teenager called “Jews, God and History”……I don’t know really what else to suggest….I find that there are many ways to be a Jew and just talk to as many Jews as possible and if you have a chance to attend a Passover Sedar or a Channukah celebration by all means go……music, food and lively discussions!

I want to add that my father, who was Catholic, admired Alan Watts….he also visited a soothsayer and found out he might have been a Jew in a past life………as you can see my family is all over the map when it comes to spiritual matters…….highly entertaining childhood!

Do you have a favorite religious text or passage?

I love the phrase “L’ Chaim” which is a toast = to life!

Glenda (right) with her sisters

Read the full blog series: An Exploration of World Religions below.

  • Launch
  • Zoroastrianism
  • Pope Francis
  • Buddhism/Catholicism
  • Judaism
  • Islam

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  1. Tamara

    June 6, 2017 at 1:43 pm

    So interesting. I grew up Jewish and Cassidy grew up half Jewish and half not. It’s been a real interesting time teaching the kids about everything!

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  2. Janine Huldie

    June 6, 2017 at 3:41 pm

    I grew up with some Jewish friends and even some family members through marriage, so I do happen to know a bit about the religion through this and loved learning more here still today!! 🙂

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  3. Patrick Weseman

    June 10, 2017 at 6:51 pm

    Very interesting. I learned a lot, I work with a lot of Jewish people but they really never explained the religion to me. Thanks to her for teaching me more about it.

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  4. Charlotte

    June 19, 2017 at 9:42 am

    Thanks so much for sharing this, Catherine! I loved learning more about Glenda and her religious beliefs. I was raised in a mixed religion household (my mother is Lutheran; my father is Jewish) and I’ve always been fascinated by both religions equally. These photos are fantastic… It’s always interesting to see how childhood shapes who we become in our adult life, eh?

    XOXO

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    • Catherine

      June 29, 2017 at 2:22 pm

      I think it’s so important to hear about everyone’s personal stories. We have such interesting things to share about religion, culture, politics and kindness! We really can all get along 🙂 And I agree, vintage photos are such a treasure. A friend of mine on Facebook posted a picture of her toddler daughter and a picture of her great-aunt at the same age. They could’ve been twins. It was such a fascinating example of genetics!

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  5. Dana

    June 20, 2017 at 1:30 pm

    I have a Catholic father and a Jewish mother as well, although I have always only identified as a Jew. We have such a long history, and I appreciate the emphasis on learning and social justice (particularly in Reformed Judaism). I always enjoy learning about other people’s religious upbringing and experiences – thanks for sharing, Glenda!

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