Presidential Debate: Romney 1, Obama 0

Been super busy with work and haven’t had any time for extracurricular online activities like blogging, tweeting, or scouring my Facebook feed. But I did have a chance to watch the presidential debate. Wow. I was surprisingly impressed by Romney and sorely disappointed by Obama. Mr. President, how do you fail to look at your opponent during the whole friggin debate? Unbelievable how poor Obama’s performance was, both in action and in content. He failed! If his preparation for the debate is any indication of his fervor to maintain the presidency, then he deserves to lose. I was so horrified by his performance that I actually no longer care who wins the election. We are choosing between the better of the worst.

Given what happened, I was shocked at the dead silence concerning the topic among my online network. Why is that the case? Because the majority of my friends are uber-liberal Democrats. Obama could have stuttered his way through the debate and there would have been zero criticism. I guess that’s what I don’t understand. Have people become so close-minded that they blindly vote for whichever candidate regardless of capability? I prefer to assess both candidates objectively regardless of political affiliation and when there’s criticism to be had, well then I will dole it out. Silent acceptance does no one any favors. If the tables were turned and Romney had sucked, my Facebook feed would’ve blown up with scorn for the man.

I’ve heard the excuse that Obama has always been a weak debater. For crying out loud, he is a Harvard Law School graduate and the president of the United States. How do you not have effective debate skills?!?!

Stimulus

I have become a major podcast fiend. If you have any favorites, please comment so that I can subscribe. What a great way to multitask while commuting to work, especially when it’s overcast in San Francisco and you can’t read without an itty bitty light. Aside from educating my mind by listening, I’ve done a ton of reading lately because I can’t access Facebook at home. I don’t know what the problem is. I tried to troubleshoot it myself by reading a bunch of apple support pages and help feeds. I even brought my laptop to the Genius Bar and that didn’t work. So night time is all about reading my book club books which are both fab.

There are always people who don’t read the book which, in my mind, is flabbergasting because we always assign a substantial cushion of time for reading. I know people will throw out the baby excuse, but so what? I have a full-time job. I also work for Burning Man. I’m a blogger, a landlord, a vacationer, active on Airbnb for additional rental income. On top of all that, I’m trying to get pregnant. That means constant blood work, trips to the pharmacy, phone calls, appointments, ultrasounds, sonograms, a multitude of tests, and injections. And I read two books a month! People in the book club who don’t have kids and don’t read the book are essentially pathetic.

Back to podcasts. I listened to an economic podcast with Professor Raghu Rajan. Incidentally he happens to hail from the University of Chicago Booth School of Business. I wasn’t listening to it for that reason. He was just so insightful (and from my alma mater, duh). I’m going to start stalking this guy and his research. He wrote a book called Fault Lines: How Hidden Fractures Still Threaten the World Economy which was the Financial Times 2010 Best Business Book of the Year.

One of the issues he discusses in detail is income inequality. Because of technical innovation, jobs such as manufacturing are disappearing. What remains are very low-end jobs and very high-end technical and professional jobs. As the wages of the upper middle class continue to grow, the middle class is starting to merge with the lower class. As a result, there’s a lot of anger towards the so-called “1%.” Anger at the Bush tax cuts, anger that the top is getting a free ride, anger that the rich are in their position because of corporate malfeasance, when in reality, the single biggest group in the top 1% are doctors. Not bankers! The solution is to fix longer-term problems such as education which is a lot more challenging than fixing tax codes! Raghu, you the man. Buy this guy’s book. http://blogs.chicagobooth.edu/faultlines

Fashion Friday: Madonna

Based on my Twitter and Facebook feeds, it looks like most people enjoyed Madonna’s half-time show at the Superbowl. Me? I agree!

I’m quite surprised with the negative comments, labeling her old, washed-up, or not entertaining.

Wuh? I’m sorry, but last year when the Black Eyed Peas performed, did you see Fergie do anything but sing, walk around, and look pretty? No one has the range that Madonna does. What half-time act have you seen where the performer did anything but sing, possibly play an instrument, and do limited dancing. Madonna did it all. I felt like she took a lot of risks too. She was going up and down stairs in high-heeled boots. She did cartwheels. She mastered all the synchronized choreography.

Damn, she nailed it. Plus, I’d like to look like that when I’m 53. 53! She looks better than people I know who are 33. Cmon people. She’s an icon.

Counting the Days until Friday January 20th

I have nothing to write about because I’ve been in a bad mood. I worked last weekend, I’ll work again this weekend, and I’m working Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday. What fun eh?

I’ve come to realize how much I live for the weekends. I’m so overworked that we’ve got to get away the following weekend, but we’ve already committed to seeing people. I need a vacation!

It’s ironic I wrote about being offline in my last post. I certainly have been offline. No Twitter, limited Facebook, no podcasts. What is going on in the world? Mitt Romney, Iran sanctions, and my favorite Tebow.

Yeah I’m jumping on the bandwagon. You know why? Anyone who was born in my parents’ homeland, does missionary and orphanage work in the Philippines, and happens to be unbelievably humble…well he is a rockstar in my eyes for sure. People either love him or hate him, but honestly cannot understand why people hate him so much. There are rumors that he broke up a marriage. Ummm, rumors, people. Affairs never stopped us from supporting Clinton. Am I right? Or maybe they hate him because they think he’s a righteous, Bible-toting prick? Ummm, I don’t see him condemning anyone or being preachy.

I think it’s really sad when people who are strong enough to be vocal about what they believe in, get verbally abused by others who don’t agree. Poor Kelly Clarkson started a Twitter hate fest when she tweeted that she supports Ron Paul.

Cannot believe how far Tebow has taken the Broncos. Incredible! I love you man! God bless.

F’ing Facebook

I am so frustrated with Facebook. I cannot deal anymore. I want to kill the product managers over there.

All I want to do is filter my news feed for location changes, relationship changes, and occasionally when I have time, status updates. It’s quite simple. So simple that Facebook is too retarded to figure that out. I do not want to go through each of my friends and choose Important Only. By the way, there is no definition for Important Only in Facebook Help.  What does that mean when I choose Important Only?!?!? Argh.

Twitter is my source for all news and updates. If you’re on Twitter, please let me know! I can keep track of you better that way.

Budget: Extreme Makeover

I’ve been crunching numbers non-stop lately.

It started when my tenant gave notice that he’d be leaving at the end of this month. Quick to Craigslist. What’s the going rate for a 1-bedroom apartment in Lower Pac Heights? I’ve been renting my place for more than two years, steadily increasing the rent with each new lease. But this time, I aimed a lot higher. The rental market is dot-com hot. I’ve got Googlers, engineers, doctors, interns, VCs emailing and calling. A New Yorker hired at Facebook told me he was contending with crowds of applicants at every open house. Bejesus! Instead of 20%, I should have increased the rent by 30%. I still would have had the demand.

With the rental money covering my mortgage, HOAs, and property taxes combined, I don’t want to be one of those un-disciplined Americans who takes that extra money and spends it. Like when we get raises, we adjust our lifestyle accordingly. No, I want to be fiscally conservative.

More research! Even before the tenant changeover, I have been eyeing mortgage rates, targeting a 4% or lower 30-year rate. Then a friend tipped me off to consider a 15-year. THANKS KITTY! I couldn’t seem to make the numbers work, but I kept on it. Determined to cash in on these low rates, I searched all the major banks’ websites for mortgage rates. I scoured the web. I looked at ING and First Republic. I called Residential Finance Corporation because they had mailed me a promotion. And lastly, I checked Navy Federal Credit Union who I used to refinance my private student loan. There it was, a 3.125% 15-year mortgage rate – right on the money.

A little bit of luck, ample social networking, friendship, a lot of research, and persistence. It pays.

September 11 and Personal Connections

I read this in the NYTimes paper. It was one of many letters to the editor on the September 11th anniversary. This one really stood out for me.

“Of all the stories I’ve read in the days and years after 9/11, the ones most vividly recalled have to do with people’s desire for connection until their very last moments—the jumpers who clung to one another as they stepped off the towers or the final phone calls made to loved ones to say goodbye.

“In this post-9/11 world where connection seems more superficial, where the only way some people keep up with loved ones is by following Facebook and Twitter feeds, this 10th anniversary of 9/11 is a reminder to me to really connect to the people around me.

“For all those we lost on 9/11, I hope those personal connections provided some comfort in their final moments.”

Judie Park

New York, Sept. 7, 2011

How Many Friends Can a Person Have?

Daily Post, a few weeks ago, posed how many friends a person can have—an interesting debate that I tucked into my file of blog topics.

Last night, I had drinks with one of my newer friends—someone I’ve known since June 2008. Yes, I consider that a new friend! We had not met up in quite some time. So much time had elapsed that I’d written him off, without any ill intent whatsoever. We’re both extremely busy, probably consumed by our relationships, and associate with opposite crowds. Marina vs Tendernob. Upper crust vs lower crust. Louis Vuitton vs Etsy. He’s great, but we don’t have the time to foster our friendship any longer, especially when we’ve got other friends to attend to.

He initiated a get together which is very uncharacteristic among my friends. Notice how I am always the one planning events and telling people to meet up! I wasn’t convinced by his offer as he’s cancelled on me plenty of times. I’ve done the same, so it’s been mutual. Mutually-hectic.

Yesterday at happy hour was the first time I’d seen him in over a year. His fiancé is a doll and I had a really enjoyable time—just the three of us talking.

The bottom line is that this guy is a true friend—regardless of how much time goes by.

As for Daily Post, it’s really not a question of how many friends can a person have, but how many friendships can you maintain? It is very hard. I have an often-referred-to spreadsheet of approximately 50 close friends that I make sure to maintain a good dialogue with.

But what about the thousand friends on Facebook? Are they acquaintances? Do you go up to acquaintances and give them big hugs? Aren’t friends those we can spend quality time catching up with even when you haven’t seen them in years? Well then they are my friends, all thousand of them.

Off the Grid

I was completely off the grid for the past week, vacationing in Canada. No cell phone, limited internet access. It was heavenly. So relaxing and enjoyable that I’d say it was even better than our honeymoon…which is a bold assertion.

I am very extreme. I like not exercising, but I also like races. I like Burning Man, but I also like church and the corporate culture. I like staying up late in big cities (no SF, that’s not you), but I also like camping. I enjoy inhaling information–reading the paper, my Twitter feed, catching up with friends on Facebook, but I also enjoy being completely away from it. When was the last time you intentionally refrained from calling, texting, being online?

More thoughts on our trip shortly…

Random Musings from the Interweb

Alumni musings: Picture here is the winner of the UC Berkeley 2011 graduation photo contest. Golda Hernandez ’10 (Photo credit Randy Olaes)

Food musings: After I wrote that post about YFC, looks like Ad Hoc will be serving fried chicken daily through their takeout lunch program called Addendum. Damn those fuckers.

Job musings: I don’t even know this girl, but someone has got to hire her. If I could, I would. I wouldn’t be surprised if this new college grad has already been scooped up. Christine Hall.

Literary musings: Norman Mailer proving to the world what a total asshole he was.

Comedy musings: Damn my mom is on Facebook. Best of SNL.

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