Friday Night Union Square Pub Crawl and a Gigolo

Friday after work, I walked around Union Square. The night was perfect, not cold at all. There was clearly a buzz in the air. People peered into the glittery window displays at Tiffany’s. Others hailed cabs. Families and kids posed all along the giant Christmas tree. What merriment!

I popped into the Westin St. Francis as it seemed to be a hub of festivity. I made my way up to the mezzanine to take this unobstructed picture of the rotating Sugar Castle on display in the lobby.

Intent on having a drink at the hotel’s Clock Bar which was in full swing happy hour mode, I found a lonely single seat at the bar and texted Dean and Keith to meet me there. Living right in hotel mecca, I’ll need to stop into a few of the big ones and see what festivities they have going on for the holiday season.

After the first round of drinks, the CDK threesome bickered over what next and I bemused that this would be a recurring theme for our upcoming London vacation. Anal Keith pulled out his never-ending list of restaurants and bars, and we opted for the Burritt Room three blocks away from our apartment.

Well hello lovely Burritt bar, never knew you even existed. Can’t beat a Prohibition-styled bar that feels hidden and tucked away with a jazz band playing while you sip mixologist-crafted cocktails. New favorite bar in the city. I don’t say this often, but thank you Keith!

We capped the night off with dinner at Morton’s Steakhouse which I won’t get into because, please it’s a chain with standard fare that’s overpriced, but the only restaurant we could all agree on. I will mention that we were seated at a booth and the table directly in front of us was quite the entertainment. Two people dining: a young man in his early to mid-twenties and a woman in her late sixties or seventies (hard to tell with all that plastic surgery). At first we didn’t pay them much heed, figured a grandmother dining with her grandson, until they started caressing each other. It took all my effort to keep from staring.

Bordering drunkenness, Keith blurted, “OMIGAWD, are they holding hands?!”

 

Fashion Friday: H&M…Again…Another Post to Reiterate the Obvious

It is a winter wonderland around the Financial District and Union Square. Office buildings are decorated. Displays are festive. After work, I couldn’t help but walk into Zara, craving their elegant wool coats. It’s haute couture at middle class prices. If you are in need of a new coat, Zara has beautiful ones for $180-225. I had to force myself out of the store. I don’t need another coat! Besides, it never gets that cold in SF anyway.

What I do need are some basics (tees and leggings) so I headed straight to H&M. Everything is dirt cheap and well made, for the most part. I am a leggings whore and my favorite pair is from H&M.

Check out my goods: chinos, leggings, a long-sleeved top, 2 tees, and a tank top. There wasn’t a single item more than $15. My total came out to $82. $82!!!! Why shop anywhere else?

I am thoroughly convinced that if my wardrobe went up in flames, I could completely rebuild it with a $200 gift certificate to H&M.

You’re not going to find a special occasion dress at H&M. Zara’s a good place for that. And you’re not going to find office clothing at H&M either. I like Ann Taylor for work stuff. But seriously people, stay away from Nordstroms and Macys. H&M is the only place to shop.

Which City is Better: San Francisco vs Oakland

On my way to work, I saw the newspaper headline asking which Bay Area metropolis is better. I don’t remember which periodical it was. I didn’t stop to read it. I only made a mental note to blog about it.

Unless you’ve lived in both cities for long stretches of time, I don’t think you can make a fair assessment. I was born in Oakland (which does not constitute living) and reside in San Francisco. So I’m going to have some biased opinions based on the wonderful life I live in the city. I can already hear the Oakland residents professing that Oakland is way better. Please feel free to comment.

Here are some arguments as to why Oakland beats SF. It’s cheaper. Isn’t that the only reason? Oh and parking is easier. But what really makes Oakland great? The sports teams are worse. The schools are just as bad. The streets are just as unsafe in certain areas. There’s a greater contingent of Occupy retards disrupting the flow of business. There’s more rioting. The restaurants, nightlife, museums will never stack up to what you’ll find in the city. Yes, there’s progress. Yeah, there’s a Michelin star. But even Berkeley’s gourmet ghetto can take down all of Oakland’s eateries. I will say that’s it’s likely a lot easier to start a business in Oakland than it is in San Francisco. Score 1 for Oakland.

Let me pose a question to you. If you had the opportunity to buy a home that looked the same, came with the same exact features, cost the same price, with the choice of the home being in either Oakland or SF, where would you take up residence? I’ve got to believe that the biggest draw for living in Oakland is the cheaper home prices and standard of living. I’m not dissing on Oakland. Love Oakland. But if your international best friend is paying a visit to the Bay Area for one week, would you tell that friend to get a hotel room in Jack London Square or Union Square?

Tourists are not visiting Oakland. People go to Oakland to visit family not to vacation. That’s another thing, what is unique to Oakland? The Tribune Tower? Hardly. Lake Merritt? Getting warmer. But what iconic landmarks define Oakland? Help me out, I can’t think of any. With Berkeley, there’s the Campanile, Telegraph, Memorial Stadium. With SF, there’s the Golden Gate Bridge, Crissy Field, the DeYoung, Golden Gate Park, Ocean Beach, Lombard Street, Fisherman’s Wharf. I could go on and on. Not so with Oakland.

Employment is key. Where do people work? Unless you work for Clorox or Kaiser or real estate, there aren’t many employment opportunities in Oakland. Now how many of you work or have worked in SF. All of us!

I’m not an SF snob. I’ll happily leave SF to try a new restaurant, hang out with my parents, have drinks with my East Bay friends. And if I had to choose a place to live that was not SF, it would be Oakland. But I’ve been hearing a lot about how much everyone loves Oakland and it kinda has me scratching my head. What makes it that much better? Would love to hear.

Fashion Friday: DSW

DSW, the mother of discount shoe stores has taken up residence in Union Square at the former Borders building. 4 floors of mens and womens shoes: flats, dress, walking, running, boots. This is not your typical DSW store. It is the mega store. Those $500 shoes you see in the magazines? Yes, they’re there. I was floored by their selection. One hour browsing is not enough time.

Fortunately or unfortunately, however you want to think about it, there are limited size 5s and 11s which is why they are noticeably tagged with a bright neon sticker that says 5, 5 1/2, or 11. I told the sales people to please get more 5s, but I also wanted to thank them for making it so easy to find my size.

Unbelievable selection. Must check it out.

Fashion Friday: H&M

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I’ve decided recently that I’m only going to shop at H&M from now on. Head to the store on Powell near Union Square and you will find everything you need: leggings, dresses, ballet flats, blazers, purses, underwear, scarves, umbrellas, men’s wear, children’s wear. And cheap. Like dirt cheap. So cheap that if there’s something I want, but they’re out of my size, I can get it altered and it will still be cheaper than something similar at another store.

Last week, I stopped by the store before 8am on my way to work. H&M was launching their Marni designer collection at certain locations. There were at least 50 people waiting in line. Ummm, nothing is worth wasting that much time on, but it was pretty fascinating watching all these young women with printouts from the website and clutching onto magazines with the H&M pages dog-eared.

One of my favorite fashion blogs is Atlantic-Pacific. 1) I like that the blogger is based in SF. Nice to see an SF background versus NYC! 2) She features clothes from Zara and H&M with fashion that’s easily accessible to the masses.

There was a dress I saw, I believe, in Vanity Fair. I can’t remember who the designer was. It might have been Kenneth Cole. Anyhow, I searched diligently and aggressively for the dress and could not find it anywhere on their site. Meaning, they construct a full ad campaign around clothes you cannot even purchase. This happens all the time. It drives me batty!

Spa J’adore

The Secret thing is really working. I got a free massage because someone wasn’t able to use their Bloomspot offer and didn’t want it to go to waste. Spa J’adore by Union Square–penthouse suite of 490 Post Street–is one of the prettiest spas I’ve ever been to. They do all kinds of massages: swedish, deep tissue, thai, pregnancy. You name it.

I got W-O-R-K-E-D. The masseuse said at least three times he couldn’t believe how strong I was. Maybe because English is his second language he said strong instead of flexible. Or it could have been the fact that this tall European guy was pretty much standing on my back! Who knows. It was great. Highly recommend.

Looks like they’re still offering $45 massages which is half off their listed price. Check them out. I’m hooked.

Fashion Friday: Going Offline

I’ve waxed on and on about how I’m an online shopping fiend. But over the holidays I started to get a little nostalgic strolling around Union Square passing by Williams Sonoma, Nike, Neiman Marcus. I thought, goodness, what would I do if there wasn’t a Macy’s or Nordstrom’s? I felt awful, especially since my behavior is contributing to these brick-and-mortar stores closing down. So I made a point over the holidays to patronize these stores and my mini-shopping spree resulted in me buying a pair of very expensive black J Brand jeans. Of course they weren’t on sale. But super comfortable. Something I can imagine wearing all the time. Think about a world without a Union Square Macy’s or the customer service-oriented Nordstrom’s. No go out there and do some shopping.

Christmas Festivities

I love Christmas time. Does it get any more festive than this time of year? This year seems to have zoomed by along with December so I feel like I didn’t get a chance to do everything I love doing like having holiday tea at one of the big hotels, ice-skating in Union Square, or watching the Symphony.

But I did manage to catch my nephew sing as part of the Golden Gate Boys Choir. The choir is comprised of elementary and high school kids from all over the Bay Area. They had a concert at St. Francis in North Beach, singing all the classics: O Come, O Come Emmanuel, Hark the Herald Angels Sing, the Little Drummer Boy, O Come All Ye Faithful…

In addition to singing, they had bellringers who were the bomb. Older kids who played Carol of the Bells and the Coventry Carol. So amazing. I’ve never heard the bells played before. Click on the link below to a video.

Golden Gate Bellringers

I also got front row Orchestra seats to the San Francisco Ballet’s Nutcracker which is supposed to be one of the best Nutcrackers in the world. We read that the first full-length Nutcracker in the U.S. premiered at the SF Ballet. Plus I adore ballerina Yuan Yuan Tan who played the older Clara. You won’t see anyone like her. The day she announces her impending retirement (she’s getting up there), I plan on watching every ballet that she’s in. It was a Tuesday night and it seems like all the SF dwellers made it to that show (I saw a bunch of people), including one of my exes who texted me.

Fashion Friday: Urban Outfitters

I’m one of those investors who likes to buy stock in companies that I actually use their products or services like Target, Waste Management, Yum Brands. Ironically, I went to a top business school because that strategy has not fucking worked for me. Those stocks aside, I am a huge consumer of Urban Outfitters goods. Who doesn’t love all that shit at Anthropologie? Besides being one of their big customers, I was all over the fact that the CEO went to MY business school. Clearly the guy must have brains because he went to Chicago. Well, ever since I heard about their global expansion and Anthropologie stores hitting the Parisian market, the 100 shares of stock I own have been sorely beaten down. I am such an idiot! Make sure I don’t ever manage your stock portfolios. You will die a pauper.

As mad as I am about the stock, I have yet to cash in my shares (at a loss). I’m still holding on and still shopping. I was sniffing around the Urban Outfitters–Union Square store–two Fridays ago after work. You know how sometimes you just feel like shopping? I rarely shop in-person, I like to do most of my stuff online, but that Friday I felt like checking out some stores and trying things on. I found a few items–dresses and tank tops–and headed to the dressing room. In front of me was a blind woman, holding onto her husband. I tried hard not to be one of those people who stares so I said casually, “Excuse me. Are you in line?”

She said no and I continued to wait my turn. Her husband turned around. His face had been completely burned. One of his eyes was a dull glass marble. The husband and wife felt their way around the accessory section, touching the necklaces and sunglasses. My eyes started welling up on the spot. It seems the Urban Outfitters staff felt the same way. They asked how they could help and I could see the young girls running around the store fetching items, bringing them back to the handicapped couple, assisting them with checkout. They all had glum faces as the couple made their way out of the store.

So maybe the company doesn’t make money, but the staff that day had heart. Despite all the bitching and moaning as I watch the stock plummet, I was actually proud to own the stock that day. Go support your local Urban Outfitters store.

Fashion Friday Supports the Tenderloin

I had the opportunity to have my makeup done by the owner of Eye Candy. The website for the beauty salon notes its location as Mid-Market, but I affectionately and properly call that area the Tenderloin. If it weren’t for its close proximity to my home, I wouldn’t have booked an appointment there but I’m so glad I did. Tracy has grown her business through word-of-mouth and dominant 5-star Yelp reviews, and she’s been in the Warfield building as one of the first retail tenants for the past year.

While she’s an amazing makeup artist (best makeup I’ve ever had done), she’s known for shaping eyebrows. I believe her shop had recently been named the best in the city. She filled in my brows and made them look great with makeup so I have no doubt she’s skilled when she spends 30 minutes on a brow appointment.

When talking to Tracy, she said, “Who says you can’t go past 5th Street as a business owner.”

Here is information from her website. “While just a block from the glamour and notoriety of Union Square, mid-market has long been a neighborhood in transition. Instead of premium retailers, our neighbors include everything from mid-rise office towers, to upstart restaurants and funky night clubs, to boutique retailers, art galleries, and, yes, the occasional adult theater. But Mid-Market is also full of history and at the moment, full of promise. On July 8, 2010, the CityPlace retail center was approved for development. A five-story, 250,000-square foot retail space directly across from the Warfield and just steps from San Francisco Center at 5th and Market, this new anchor is sure to have a major impact on our block. We expect a major discount retailer, such as Target, to be a key tenant in the new mall, and along with them a new sense of polish, activity, security, and connection between Mid-Market and Union Square. We’re fascinated by the history of this area and building, and we’re currently reading and researching as much as we can. Our efforts are for the greater good, of course, and we look forward to sharing the most interesting and peculiar bits of information we can dig up. We’re really looking forward to being a part of this vibrant and re-emerging part of San Francisco, and we really want you to share the experience with us.”

Now that’s fashion forward in the largest sense.

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